#MeToo, Cosby and now the Ford vs Kavanaugh incident not one woman has stepped up and said "hey ladies what is our role in all of this?" We have a role, because it's never ever just one sided, never. As a population, the female population, we are not victims, we are co-conspirators.
Here's what I would ask you, how do you dress for work?
High heels? how high? and why do you wear them? Do they make you look smart? Accomplished? A leader? Successful? I know you are not wearing them for comfort. My guess if you are being honest with yourself the answer will be sexy.
In your nice crisp business suit do you show cleavage? If so why? Again does it make you look successful? A leader? Accomplished? Oh maybe you want men to look at your boobs while you're talking to them.
How tight is your skirt and how high is that slit? knee high, thigh high, hip high?
Take a visit to a night club on a Friday or Saturday night and tell me what do you see with the woman in the club? How are they dressed? How are they dancing? You can't dress sexy, act sexy, dance sexy without there being consequences. By being this way a message is being sent over to the male's part of the body that gets easily stimulated (the penis). Remember it's common knowledge most men think with their penises.
I'm not saying that the victims which there are many are to blame but men see us females dressing and acting sexy to attract them. Those who do that and there are many, we are creating this problem for all woman. Men see us as sex objects because we dress sexy, act sexy, do sexy, and not as smart, caring, loving, accomplished human beings. We think we should be sexy and they (men) see sex, it's so simple.
Some of you are saying "we can dress anyway we want to and you can but you have to ask yourselves what is your intention for dressing this way? Be honest with yourself. I really don't care what your answer is but for you and your well being be honest with yourself.
Society has told us this is who we should be, this is how we should act, this is how we should dress, but if you buy into it there is a price to pay and it's a very high price for you and for all woman. We've had it rough throughout history we have had and still have a lot to overcome but we are now letting all of our wins become losses. Dress sexy and then it becomes easier and easier for men to take advantage of us because it looks like we are saying come and get it.
As a teenager I was taught to be sexy, act flirtatious and I'd get the man of my dreams and to be honest that didn't work out so well. There is more substance to me and to you then being sexy. Don't assume that sexy will get you where you want to go, whether it's a job promotion or a husband. It will definitely at some point back fire on you.
Men should not take advantage of woman but woman stop being this sexy thing that men get all worked up over.
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